Have you ever thought: “I just don’t love my husband any more.” “I’m just not attracted to my wife anymore.” “My life would be so much better if I was married to _____.” “I wish I lived like _____”? You know how you’re “supposed to act” towards your spouse but it’s just so hard, and it doesn’t feel like things will ever change. The good news is that these feelings will not stay around forever. The better news is that we can give you some tips that we’ve seen bring an incredible joy and love into hundreds of relationships.
Plug the holes in your cup
Picture a big glass cup in your kitchen. No, not the dirty one that’s on the counter – a clean one. Let’s imagine that this cup holds all of the love you could possibly have for your spouse. Now, let’s imagine that there’s a small hole on the bottom of the cup and a few more on the sides. These holes are there in our real life too and the sooner we patch them, the easier it is for the cup to
your life and community that are maybe a little older than you in terms of your marriage that have strong marriages. Talk to them; ask them to one of those activities; make time for them. This step is hard. People have busy lives and are sometimes reluctant, but stay diligent in it.